Why Your Wife or Girlfriend No Longer Loves You The Way She Used To?

When you first met your partner, there was something special about her that ignited the spark and it didn't take much time for you both to fall in love. You regarded your relationship 'godsend' and sincerely believed you two were made for each other.

But one fine day, your girlfriend moves into your apartment or you were so certain that she is the right one for you and you moved on to marry her.

Life was never the same for you; you were so excited about the positive changes happening. You had a reason to be home early or waited for your weekends.

But after many of those splendid days of excitement, you started noticing that the passion went down the drain. Things between you and your girl is not the same as it used to be. She doesn't love you the way she used to. It seems she is already bored with her partner.

Something Is Not Right About Your Relationship; But Whom To Blame?
When you start noticing that something is not right about your relationship, you're almost certain that your better half does not love you the way she used to.

However, how many of us ever put any effort in assessing the situation rationally? Most of us never take any effort to understand our partner. Let's look at some possibilities that made your life boring all of a sudden.

Women Crave For Attention: OK. This is pretty obvious but are you quite certain that you give your girl enough attention?

For most guys, working overtime to make more money and spending the night finishing the backlogs is a way to 'express' their love.

With this, you are definitely creating a good impression in your company, and may be even able to snatch a promotion or the best employee award.

But when was the last time you bought her some flowers on special occasions? When was the last time you surprised her with a movie ticket or a restaurant reservation?

For most guys, expressing love this way is loathsome. They truly believe their true cause for late night work, providing better living conditions to his partner, is more than enough to make her feel good.
Unfortunately, this is not the way a woman's brain work. For her, explicit expressions or your affection is very important.

Monotonous Lifestyle: Everybody loves surprises. When was the last time you surprised your partner? Be it sex or shopping, women love surprises and if you're not giving them some, they are highly likely to get bored. You will misunderstand their boredom to lack of interest.

Verdict
Before concluding that nothing can be done about your relationship with your girl, consider changing your lifestyle and making her feel important. Do not expect your girl to openly discuss her feelings with you as they are probably not very sure why they don't like you anymore.
Chances are that they are in a state of confusion and do not know how to express it. It's your responsibility to take the initiative and try to work out things between you and her.