How to Get Your Ex Back In Love With You

Let's be honest about this, most of us have had at least one relationship end that we wished we could've saved, right? The famous "one that got away!" And like most of us, you've gone through the same tortures of the damned when someone you love tells you it's over. When a relationship for which you had hope ends, it's very easy to spiral down into depression and despair and think there is no hope of getting your Ex back!

Chances are, like most of us, you've ended up sitting in a room night after night desperately trying to understand just what you did wrong, even though you probably did nothing wrong! You've suffered with the mood swings, you can't eat, can't sleep, you're crying and you're desperately trying to find answers to just what went wrong with the relationship. The pain of a break up can be unbearable and you get to the point where you have no idea how you're going to get through it. You tell yourself that if you could just find a way to get your Ex back then it would all be better, but just how do you go about getting your Ex back?

Truth is, most of us don't know how to get our Exs back and we start trying to win them back by doing lame things that will only make them continue heading in the opposite direction. We turn ourselves into doormats, accepting responsibility for everything that went wrong or we try and become someone we're not as we try to please our Exs. Both these moves are bad and will not work, they will only make you appear desperate and needy and both of these are a complete turn off for your Ex.

What you need is a plan to get your Ex back. Yes it is very possible to stumble around in an aimless kind of way and by accident manage to get your Ex back into your life, but that is a torturous hit and miss approach that will really only work for a fraction of people who are desperately searching for the solution to their pain.
I'll say it again, you need a plan! A concrete tried and tested plan that will give you the answers to the questions that have you up night after night depressed and traumatised. A plan that will put the power and ability, to get your Ex back into your life, securely into your hands. Only with a plan of action can you begin the road back to happiness free from the pain.

The plan begins like this. Accept that the break up has happened. Accept that your Ex has told you that they are leaving and the relationship is over. If you do this, then you are leaving the door open. Have you ever heard the saying "If you love someone set them free!"? Of course you have and it is this concept that you need to adopt to begin getting your Ex Back.

The next stage is to get on the good foot! You have to pick yourself, get out and about and remember that your Ex might for now be your Ex, but you still have other friends. You still have a life and you have to look after yourself. Remember there was a time when your Ex wanted you, that means there was a time when your Ex desired you and your company. Be yourself and remember who you are, remember that person who your Ex fell in love with and if you want to get your Ex back, get back to being that person.