When Love and Hate Collide

Relationships are often the most complicated affairs among human beings. Sometimes you end up a winner and worst part the loser. Specifically because there are a lot of trials and humans are but humans by heart that easily fell victims of the tricks. Often times, people in an in depth relationships are having troubles with either themselves or the partners. The faults are blamed either way.This is where hate or love comes in picture.

Love is a basic in a relationship. In fact, a lot of people say that with out it any affair will not be strong enough to face trials. However, once love ends and hate is left behind chances are low for reconciliation. With this, I am not completely referring to all relationships. There are also relationships that went through bumps and end up a happy ending.

But, when would you exactly know a dying love in a relationship? Or perhaps, a hidden hate rather than love?
I am not an affair genius nor was I a counselor for love affairs. I am nothing but a person so tired of playing false in relationship and ripe from a lot of experiences despite the young age.

Going back to the questions, you would have a bunch of ways to know when love runs out of flame or when hate replaces once occupied by love. I have listed the m below:

Do you find your partner "cold"? I mean, are there times when your partner seems so out of reach despite the fact that you two are together? Yes? Do not presume. You only have to presume when he/she has said it. The partner may have some serious problems that she/he don't want you to get involve. It will hurt you but wait and soon he or she will open up. This is the real essence of active listening by heart and not by mouth.

Are you two in cold war? If the cold war lasted for an hour that's definitely not hate but love. The f lame is still there and can still be rekindle. The worst scenario would have to be when the war lasted for months. Well, you must be keen to know that the person wants you out of his or her life. It really hurts but soon you will move on.

You always on a fight where either you or the other person gets tired listening to your sentiments? Well, I wouldn't say that the flame totally died out but it could be... You know, people deeply in love are all ears to sentiments of love ones. If not, chances are not strong enough to sustain the relationship. Better end up with a nice truce. A cool off perhaps will do.

These are a few things about relationships. There are more from other sources. Take this one as something to remember when undergoing trials in relationships. However, you have choice and preferences... Trust your instinct. It will not lead you to the wrong direction.